The bad is that it all already happened, and nothing I can do or say will change it. The good is that everything that has happened all worked together to bring me this very moment, and this moment I have choices. A choice to stay the same, or a choice to make a change. The ugly is that I cannot change how people act, think, or feel. Because the way I see it isn’t necessarily the way you see it, and sometimes the things you can’t change end up changing you.
You know someone is great when they inspire you to do better and change. Not for them, but for yourself. Yeah, it’s a shame that people can’t realize it on their own, but that’s the beauty of having family, friends, a significant other, and role models; they all inspire us.
My bad if none of this makes sense to you, but it makes sense to me.