Tuesday, November 16, 2010

The good, the bad, and the ugly

The bad is that it all already happened, and nothing I can do or say will change it. The good is that everything that has happened all worked together to bring me this very moment, and this moment I have choices. A choice to stay the same, or a choice to make a change. The ugly is that I cannot change how people act, think, or feel. Because the way I see it isn’t necessarily the way you see it, and sometimes the things you can’t change end up changing you.

You know someone is great when they inspire you to do better and change. Not for them, but for yourself. Yeah, it’s a shame that people can’t realize it on their own, but that’s the beauty of having family, friends, a significant other, and role models; they all inspire us.

My bad if none of this makes sense to you, but it makes sense to me.

1 comment:

GiangerBOMB said...

Personally, I think its beautiful that you can't control the way people act think or feel. As for your last few blogs about change i guess i never truly gave my thoughts on it, whether you want it or not i was saving it for later. I've known you for quite sometime, maybe on a more intimate level the past year and a half. I'd say the most substantial amount of change you've made has been between the months of August end- September end. I'm not going to judge you for your changes the beauty in all of this is you control your own life. As a friend i shouldn't intervene with what you need to do, and the changes you need to make, i can only grow with you as we grow apart thats the beauty in a friendship. Tzilla, you are stubborn and you know it, any inspirations that affect you are viewed through your eyes not by someone's want for u to be better.